Orgasm is a physiological and psychological reaction that is usually experienced as a peak of sexual pleasure and excitement. During orgasm, a series of reflexive and rhythmic muscle contractions occur in the pelvic floor and muscles around the genitals. The intensity of the orgasm experience can vary from time to time.
Orgasm in women and for those with a vagina
How easy or difficult it is to have an orgasm varies from person to person and some women can have several orgasms in a row. Difficulty achieving orgasm occurs in 10-40% of women of different ages. It is often easier to achieve orgasm during masturbation than with a partner. The most common is that a woman does not achieve orgasm during penetrative intercourse unless the clitoris is stimulated at the same time.
The causes of orgasm difficulties are many, with the most common causes being psychological such as stress, demands, negative sexual experiences, suboptimal sexual practices, insecurity, depression, relationship problems and emotions such as frustration, guilt and shame. Physiological causes can be pain, neurological damage such as a herniated disc or surgery. Another cause can be the side effects of medications such as antidepressants.
Orgasm in men and for you with a penis
Orgasm and ejaculation are two separate physiological processes, although they usually occur simultaneously. The most common is that ejaculation simultaneously gives an orgasmic experience. In cases where the orgasmic experience is not present, the experience is that only fluid flows through the urethra. The term anhedonic orgasm (orgasm without pleasure) is an expression used to explain ejaculation without an orgasmic experience.
The causes can be hormonal, but often there are psychological causes such as reduced or lost desire, depression and difficulties with sexual arousal.
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Many people find it difficult to talk about sex as it is a private topic that is not usually discussed. Sexuality can also bring up negative feelings such as guilt and shame for some, which makes it even more difficult to talk about their sexuality.
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During the first conversation, the sexologist will ask you questions to gain an understanding of the problems you are experiencing and how they affect you. The sexologist will listen carefully and empathetically to what you share and ask follow-up questions to gain a deeper understanding of your experiences, feelings and problems. Together you will discuss possible explanations for the sexual problems and where the sexologist will give you advice and tools. The sexologist may also suggest more counseling sessions.
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